First of all, I know I owe my faithful readers a Part 2 of the last blog, False Starts and Orgasms, but to be honest with you that all sort of fizzled out and I’ve been too uninspired to finish the story. Sorry.
Mainly because the guy has been keeping in contact with me but not making any further plans. He tells me he’s focused on his gig at Warner Bros, as well as his side projects and launching his company. He checks in on me and we talk every now and then. But nothing more. So frustrating! I also think he’s confused on what he wants.
Welcome to the non-committal, career-driven, Single Man Syndrome in Los Angeles. Again. My catch-22. Sounds like The Doc.
That being said, I’m writing this quick blog update to let you know that there are people who DO know what they want, and they won’t leave me alone! And strangely enough, these guys are from my past blog updates. It was last year when I met both of these guys, if I recall correctly.
So many guys come back down the road. Especially if I’m the one who isn’t interested after a date or two. Weird.
Mr. Can I Get A Vowel is single (and still VERY hot, I imagine) and apparently thinks about me all the time but didn’t want to bother me. However, his tune clearly changed recently, as the texts began picking up again. He has been asking to see me for several weeks now but I’ve been hesitant.
I told him I had reservations that we don’t want the same things. Although we have CRAZY chemistry, I’m looking for a long term committed relationship, and I’m not sure that’s what he wants too. He says he understands what I want, that he’s open to that idea, that he really likes me and that he wants to ‘go with the flow.’
That’s either code for “yeah yeah yeah…I just want in your pants so I’ll say anything at this point…” OR it means he’s potentially interested in really getting to know me better and doesn’t want to promise me anything he’s not sure about. They both sound the same.
You could flip a coin on this one. We’ll see.
We have a date on Wednesday night.
He came up with a plan, a place, a time, a day – all something that a lot of men, it seems, have trouble doing.
Side note: It’s not rocket science to ask someone out for coffee or a drink, geez! Be a man! Ask us single ladies out on a date, already! 🙂
So naturally, I accepted his invitation.
Last night I fell asleep to his text that said he was very excited to see me and couldn’t wait. That made me excited, too. It will be good to catch up with him at least.
This morning I woke up to a text from him telling me:
“Good morning, beautiful. I hope you have a wonderful day.”
I like it. 🙂
Mr. Too Young Tyson Beckford isn’t that serious, and hasn’t planned an actual date with me yet, although he’s mentioned wanting to get together a few times. He was gone for a couple weeks on a business trip in Canada and returned recently.
He’s still a few years younger. I believe he’s still in his late 20’s, which was my biggest reservation in the past.
My ex-boyfriend is 50! That’s quite a gap.
However, he’s very, very interested in seeing me again and who knows what I’ll do with that one. Probably nothing. Even over text I can sense some immaturity. It’s not his fault, its just where he is right now in life. Nothing wrong with that. (Except horrible timing for me!) I’m really looking for someone who’s in their 40s.
But DANG! He is gorgeous!
So there’s a quick roundup.
There are other players on the field. More of them are on the sidelines or brand new to the lineup and not yet blog-worthy. Of course, I’ll be sure to let you know if anything develops.
Who knows what will happen, but I can almost guarantee you… shenanigans.