Okcupid has been working overtime for me lately.
After a pretty decent break of being on it (and instead, focusing on Tinder’s shenanigans) I logged back in about two weeks ago to peep the scene and check a few messages.
I noticed a guy from Alabama had viewed my profile and the bow tie he was wearing in his profile pic was enough to get me to click through to check out his whole profile.
He has style. Nice.
The fascination had just begun.
The first line of his bio states that he’s a “confident, established, successful gentleman.”
Now that’s all relative, as I’ve learned through previous situations, but I’m curious to learn more, and am definitely looking for someone who’s more established than not.
I skim his profile and it leaves other nuggets in there for me that I love, like that he’s a “relationship guy…who prefers to only date one woman at a time ..sorry if that offends anyone….”
Well, what the what?!
No, charmed. More guys in LA need to adopt this concept.
He’s an “engineer by trade, but a writer by heart.”
We’re already similar in that we’re both 50/50 right-brain/left-brain. Nice!
Then it says he’s in the process of relocating to LA.
I wonder if he’s been here already and that this profile is old, but I send him a message saying. ..
“I’m the best tour guide you could ask for in LA, if you’re looking for one!”
He responds back,
“I was hoping you’d say that…!”
We exchange a few messages back and forth. He says he’s arriving to LA on Thursday and that I should contact him then.
We’re both excited to meet each other!
The days go by and we text and play phone tag until we finally have a chance to connect on Sunday. He’d been here a few days already.
I reach him on the phone while driving to my gf ‘s birthday party.
He totally has an accent! A true Southern Gent, born and raised in Alabama. Refined, and I love it.
We talk about things we like and don’t like and we learn we have a bunch of things in common already. Hmmm, interesting!
I don’t really have any friends from the South here in LA, so this is different for me. All I know is that everyone there is friendly, polite, takes their time and loves good food. Kinda like the Midwest where I’m from, I guess. :) Fun!
We’re both available later that evening and I make plans to pick him up. He’s staying at the Hyatt Regency until he buys a house, and won’t get his two cars (yes, TWO cars) delivered here until Monday, so I arrive.
I call him and he says he’s walking out.
Soon I see a man in a light-colored, striped seersucker suit on the phone, walking towards me.
Yes, folks. Seersucker. The South is alive and well.
We hang up and I get out to hug him hello. He cleans up nicely, and can totally pull it off. I learn he’s always styling.
We get in my car and he’s kinda quiet, and chuckling.
I ask him what’s up. He says,
“We drive the same car.”
Haha…yes. Apparently we have matching BMWs, except his is white and mine is black.
“I’m walking up to your car thinking, ‘This woman is not driving my car…’lol….”
We add this to our already long list of things we have in common. :)
We take a 4 minute ride over to Beverly Hills and to one of my favorite spots for great first date drinks, The Peninsula. I already knew he’d love the vibe.
We pull up to valet, amongst several Bentleys, Rolls Royces, an Audi R8, and more. I love this place.
We head to the very fancy lounge and sat down to talk and have some wine.
He’s very calm. Confident. Refined.
And totally wearing seersucker!
I’m quite intrigued by this man, and I know the evening is about to get interesting. This is not an ordinary guy…
To be continued….